Should an Employee Handbook have a policy about Employee Dating? The personal lives of your employees are really none of your business, UNLESS their actions affect their work performance. That is why you can have policies setting rules on Other Employment, Off-Duty Drug Abuse, and other activities outside of work. When it comes to dating, an employer’s big worry is that such a relationship will either hurt work performance or lead to a sexual harassment/ discrimination charge.
Dating between co-workers: A policy on how your employees can interact outside of work (friendship OK, romance Not Allowed) is hard to justify. Most courts would not support any such policy. You might even face charges of invading an employee’s protected right to privacy. Usually, it is best to avoid this kind of policy. Instead, address any problems as Work Performance issues, not violations of any dating policy.
Remember, it is not sexual harassment to ask someone out on a date, even if that other person is your co-worker. Just make sure that all employees fully understand your company’s Sexual Harassment Policy.
Dating between supervisor and employee: This is a type of dating you should consider addressing in your Employee Handbook, for two reasons:
1. Other employees may claim discrimination, feeling that the supervisor is playing favorites towards their dating partner.
2. Should the relationship sour, that employee may claim sexual harassment, feeling pressured to keep the relationship going in order to keep their job.
To avoid these kinds of situations, consider having a Conflict of Interest Policy. You are not concerned about the employees’ personal lives, but you are legitimately concerned about any supervisor-employee dating since it will hurt employee/ group morale and could easily lead to charges of discrimination or harassment.
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